Can I ever sort myself out?
Hello my friend,
What is the matter with you actually? You forever seems to have reasons and excuses for putting of something which you are reluctant to do or simply difficult to do. Let me quote you some examples. In setting up your study schedule. First you explained that there is no schedule to manage your time. Thus you do not feel the urgency to work. When finally we get the schedule up. Then you do not follow it because you say the schedule is inaccessible and that you do not see it often enough. But each step you will be reluctant to do it quickly, always putting it off for a couple of days and soon we can see a couple of days here, a couple of days there.. soon a weeks come and go. time drag into month and gradually into years.
Then you complain that events passes you by. You did not anticipated events more promptly. You wonder if it is a mistake of organisation. You wonder if it is a mistake of values and thinking and judgement. You wonder this and wonder that. Tweaking here and tweaking there seems to have led you nowhere thus far.
Actually could it be all that you need to do.. is to apply alot more common sence?? rather than too much mumbo jumbo rethorics? bull shits if you would ask me.
Common sence 1. Obviously I have to take exams at the end of November. Today is October!!! and i am still like raw. ----> what is there else to do???
2. Short term wise.. there is little you can do in relations to how we can find more money and have to depend on Peter to come up with the money. ----> do you need to worry about it anymore than that?
3. given the current situation. Your relationship with ling will have to be maintain like that for now. What are you to feel unhappy or feel un-nerving about?
4. Look not at how others are moving.. or rather not moving please!!!
Look at how you are performing up to your own standard!!! What are your standards?? We cannot maintain inner consistancies if we are not able to establish the level of standard which we can be happy with ourselves about.
So what does common sense tells you to do now? Focus. Focus. Focus. What are the right things to do? What is your goals at present? momentums are all gone. motivations are all hey wired. So how to build them up?? you are the one with the brain! you think la!!! Where have the discipline gone?
Lead not by your heart.. but by your head please!!
What is the matter with you actually? You forever seems to have reasons and excuses for putting of something which you are reluctant to do or simply difficult to do. Let me quote you some examples. In setting up your study schedule. First you explained that there is no schedule to manage your time. Thus you do not feel the urgency to work. When finally we get the schedule up. Then you do not follow it because you say the schedule is inaccessible and that you do not see it often enough. But each step you will be reluctant to do it quickly, always putting it off for a couple of days and soon we can see a couple of days here, a couple of days there.. soon a weeks come and go. time drag into month and gradually into years.
Then you complain that events passes you by. You did not anticipated events more promptly. You wonder if it is a mistake of organisation. You wonder if it is a mistake of values and thinking and judgement. You wonder this and wonder that. Tweaking here and tweaking there seems to have led you nowhere thus far.
Actually could it be all that you need to do.. is to apply alot more common sence?? rather than too much mumbo jumbo rethorics? bull shits if you would ask me.
Common sence 1. Obviously I have to take exams at the end of November. Today is October!!! and i am still like raw. ----> what is there else to do???
2. Short term wise.. there is little you can do in relations to how we can find more money and have to depend on Peter to come up with the money. ----> do you need to worry about it anymore than that?
3. given the current situation. Your relationship with ling will have to be maintain like that for now. What are you to feel unhappy or feel un-nerving about?
4. Look not at how others are moving.. or rather not moving please!!!
Look at how you are performing up to your own standard!!! What are your standards?? We cannot maintain inner consistancies if we are not able to establish the level of standard which we can be happy with ourselves about.
So what does common sense tells you to do now? Focus. Focus. Focus. What are the right things to do? What is your goals at present? momentums are all gone. motivations are all hey wired. So how to build them up?? you are the one with the brain! you think la!!! Where have the discipline gone?
Lead not by your heart.. but by your head please!!
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